Boy, if the neuro said she probably wouldn't do the surgery, knowing what she knows & all her experiences, then I probably wouldn't do it either. I will be risky but it sound like it would be more risky to her life to have the surgery. I think I would go with the less risky choice and as I read your posts, that is not having surgery.
__________________  Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |