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Originally Posted by chachi  I agree and Im right with you. I dont allow people to take advantage of me period and if they dont like it I go on just fine without them. now my Hus band just wants to go along to get along and Ive told him fine but it better not affect me or our daughter and I dont want to hear him bitch a bout it either... I used to be his family babysitter the family hostess and everything else to very ungrateful people now he does it |
That is how I'm getting to be now! He's go with the flow... that old joke, willing to do all the grilling if I bring down EVERYTHING, put it on a platter, give it to him... then he'd cook and everyone would eat, then I'd throw away all the trash, pick it all up, bring it all back up... that I stopped. I have got to figure out how to get control of the towel situation though! LOL
Sat night I went to bed at 1030 with about 20 people still at our house. I just said I had a headache and had to lay down. I never got up. AMAZINGLY when I got up in the morning, they picked up and put away everything, and they even washed the dishes. I KNEW they could do it!!!
I did have to tell them to throw it all away though.. the pasta salad was not safe considering it had mayo and was out the whole day before. The regular salad was nasty looking... but at least they thought enough to put the food back in the fridge! So proud of them! LOL