1. How much should I feed a almost 9 weeks old that weighs 1lb and 1.5 oz? The amount your puppy needs will depend on what you're feeding, yorkies are prone to hypoglycemia so at that age, I'd feed him as much as he'll eat, and feed him often.
3. Where should I take him to pee/poop? Some people take theirs out from the beginning (usually 10-12 weeks), but you should only take him to an area that no other dogs have access to.
4. Is the crate all day thing a bad thing? In my opinion he's really to young to be crated all the time, you need to keep an eye on him, and watch out for blood sugar drops. He also shouldn't be turned loose unsupervised. I would crate him when you have to leave him alone, or at bed time, and keep him out and with you the rest of the time. You might try getting him a harness and keeping him on a leash with you during the day, that way you can keep an eye on him and he's still contained and out of trouble. The leash thing can also really help with potty training. If you watch him you should start to recognize how he acts when he needs to potty (usually sniffing and circling) then when you see him acting like he needs to go take him to his puppy pad and treat him when he goes where he is supposed to. I've had a few dogs and this was, for me, the easiest way to house break them. You should keep in mind though that you have to actually watch him, my sister tried this on her morkie but she gets so completely engrossed in things she never noticed when the pup started circling.
5. Puppy cries in crate, can I make him stop cuz it makes me wanna cry too? Yumi doesn't really like her crate either. I only put her in there when we're leaving or at bed time. She cried at 1st but she has learned crying doesn't get her out... If you're leaving him crated all day I'm not sure if he'll ever really get used to it.
6. How do I get hair out of his' ear cuz he is scatching it like crazy. The ears are usually plucked, you can do it with your fingers, but if they're itching like crazy you need to go to the vet. it's probably an ear infection, or mites. I've never dealt with mites, but if it's an infection the vet will probably pluck them for you (have them show you how when they do) then give you a little tube of ear dops you put it twice a day
7. Is the bump on my puppy belly bad and is the brown dots bad too? Get this checked out with the ears.
As for the potty training we're still working on it, yumi is doing very well with her puppy pads, but we haven't transitioned to outside yet. I've read it's harder to teach them to go outside after puppy pads, but that wasn't the experience I had with my other dog. For us puppy pad training came 1st then I slowly moved his pad to the door, a little closer every day. Eventually we moved the pad outside and kept taking him there for a while, then removed it all together. Currently we have 2 puppy pads down in the area Yumi has access too, and Yuri only goes outside.
You might search hypoglycemia on this forum and read up about it. Compile all the info you can and print it out to give to your parents. See if you can convince them the puppy shouldn't be locked up too long and get a tube of nutrical just in case.
There is a TON of info here on yorkietalk, and a lot more experienced people than me (my yorkie it only 5.5 months or so). You might search for posts on the different topics you need more information on. I've learned a lot from other peoples past posts. Be sure to read the sticky YORKIE PUPPY CARE GUIDE - For New Parents! at the top of the general forum!
I agree that you seem young to be taking care of such a tiny baby, but I think the mere fact that you're here asking questions and trying to give your baby the best care you can speaks volumes. You can do it
Good luck, and post pics of your new baby soon we love pictures!