So sorry that you are dealing with health issues. I would suggest that when your hubby and son are "taking care" of the babies that you go upstairs or to your room or maybe out for a short walk. I say this because with my 2, hubby doesn't exist when I'm in the room.
If I'm upstairs (the upstairs is gated off) they are either on the sofa next to or on hubby. lol But as soon as I come back into the family room, boom, they are right there with me. As for feeding them, I know mine eat better when I sit in the kitchen with them, does your husband/son stick around or do they just put the food down and go away? Try having them sit or stay around where the food is and see if this makes a difference.
I'm sure they can sense things going on with you. I know that you are concerned for their well being but I'm sure they will be just fine. Good luck with your surgery and hope you have a speedy recovery. Hugs. |