[Lilymo]

So sorry to hear about you health issues and will keep you in my thoughts. Don't worry about your babies they will adapt. Have you tried standing beside your husband when he is putting the food in the bowls so they can see you ? Let him fill the bowls and put them down and you can talk to them while he does this. Once they accept this you can stop talking but still stand there and them move a bit away and so on until hubby is doing it in his own. Might work if you do it a bit at a time. Good luck.