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lynzy420 · 05-30-2012, 04:55 AM

I'm glad OP made a decision the was best for her and her pup. I sincerely hope that she works on her self confidence and seeks a counselor or life coach to deal with the issues that make her so afraid to commit. Surely this mindset won't do her well in "life." She really needs to become independent and confident in who she is....my dad always said, no one will know how special you are until you believe how special you are...it is so true.

As for Marley, he will be fine and I'm sure he will go to a loving home and end up right where he belongs. My only concern is that I heard mention that this may have been a byb? If so, I would have hoped that you would have made the sacrifice and instead of getting a "puppy promise" for the future that you would have given Marley a better chance by going to a rescue or rehomed to a good family that you chose. If you knowingly gave him back to someone that is questionable than I'm sorry but thats just another time that YOU are perpetuating your own inability to put the needs of others before yours.

I wish OP much luck and sincerely hope that she does work on "herself."

05-30-2012, 04:55 AM	#105
lynzy420 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: USA Posts: 7,652	I'm glad OP made a decision the was best for her and her pup. I sincerely hope that she works on her self confidence and seeks a counselor or life coach to deal with the issues that make her so afraid to commit. Surely this mindset won't do her well in "life." She really needs to become independent and confident in who she is....my dad always said, no one will know how special you are until you believe how special you are...it is so true. As for Marley, he will be fine and I'm sure he will go to a loving home and end up right where he belongs. My only concern is that I heard mention that this may have been a byb? If so, I would have hoped that you would have made the sacrifice and instead of getting a "puppy promise" for the future that you would have given Marley a better chance by going to a rescue or rehomed to a good family that you chose. If you knowingly gave him back to someone that is questionable than I'm sorry but thats just another time that YOU are perpetuating your own inability to put the needs of others before yours. I wish OP much luck and sincerely hope that she does work on "herself." __________________ The Above advice/comments/reviews are my personal opinions based on my own experience/education/investigation and research and you can take them any way you want to......Or NOT!!!