I have both...I don't really know which i prefer. My little girl is sooo laid back, she loves to be groomed..actually comes running when she sees the brush, and she will sit for me to put her bow in! Orion (my boy) will fight me when i try and put a top knot in! As soon as its in...he will paw at it to get it out! He does'nt sit still for a minuite always going....BUT he is far easier to train than his sister. He will sit on command where his sister...although she knows the command will stand there and look at me...selective deafness I guess. Orion loves to snuggle though, where Raelle will snuggle when she feels like it. The leg lifting....OMG!!! The stinker peed on his sister's head!! At 4am when I'm trying to get out the door for work...this is not cute, cuz now i have to give her a bath! He's quite happy with himself when he does this of course...tail wagging and big smile...'I'm a good boy mom I peed outside!' I love putting bows in their hair so I guess I prefer a girl in that sense. I'm looking to add another one within the next 6mths...no idea which i will get yet....hmmmm boy or girl???