Wow! several months of fighting - doesn't matter what kind, can I go slap your vet? Just Kidding. I hate this texting and email stuff there's no emotion in it so for all you know I'm being a real witch here - lol I'm not trying to be critical or judgmental here, I love my furbaby like you all do. When you bring a new puppy into a home with a single dog that has been the main attraction for years sometimes I just think it's sad for him/her to not only have a new baby (which I think for a single dog can be a good thing) but to be lovely abused by that new baby is a little wrong. There can be so much fear, confusion and jealousy in the older one that he/she has to deal with having to tolerate this spastic newbee is a little much for any single dog to deal with. They're the ones that need the extra attention and understanding, that puppy could careless. Feed me, play with me and rub my belly is all they care about, while the older one is wonder what happen! doesn't mama love me anymore or did I do something wrong? When my daughter had her second child and brought him home her 3yr old daughter wanted to throw him in the waste basket. She wouldn't go in the same room with him and she point blank asked her mom if she didn't love her anymore. Our furbabies are just like children except they can't ask us. Those are just my feelings I don't mean anything bad by them or that any one person deals better then the other. Were all great moms and dads.
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