[Deadbug]

Potty training is tough. Don't be so hard on yourself. It takes time, patience and practice. It's just all part of it and it'll fly by before you know it.

Your life has changed, but not necessary for the worse. I think you're looking at this as though you have a child. It's not the same thing. You have a buddy now. Someone who will love you unconditionally. Don't look at Marley like he's this big, huge responsibility. Look at him as your friend. Someone to keep you company on cold nights, someone to cuddle with. Someone who will wipe your tears away when you cry. When you have to go somewhere, take him with you as often as you can. If you want to go out with friends and catch a movie, Marley will be ok in his pen for a few hours. He'll be glad to see you home when you walk in the door. If you want to go on vacation, have someone you trust that will babysit him. Or board him with your vet. It's really not as hard as you think.

You'll adjust. You just need to give yourself time and credit. This is all new to you but we're always here to help when you need it.