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Kelly...what can I say, but to say I am soooo sorry. Whispersmom( Lorina) and I have experienced this heartbreak alot. We both lost 12 week olds last year. One day my little girl was just fine, the next day she was fading and died..I can deal with death at birth or a few days afterwards, but it is so hard to lose one that you KNOW and love so much. Lorina lost baby Albert and can look out her window and see his grave under a tree in the backyard..it reminds her each day how precious the ones running around the house are to her...we ask God to please take them to Heaven if they are not right and will have a life of pain and sickness.
These "special" babies come into our life to teach us things..what I have learned is, some are meant to live and some are not, you can do everything possible and the results will still be the same..never forget the ones we lose and treasure the ones we have...love to you. Pat |