lol, i do understand your concern about a bf/spouse. but i look at it like this: if you love me, i need for you to take me as i come, just as i will take you exactly as you are. I mean if i date a guy who has children, i will love his children as my own, i expect you to love my baby too. There are so many happily married people on here who have wonderful, accepting partners, i know i will find that too
