thank you for your help everyone...i wish i could get a trainer alll the ones in my area are like £200 odd and they only see you once and then keep in touch by emails and stuff but thats not what i want i want to be able for them to actually come out with me and train them like 'its me or the dog' lol but that will cost a fortune
guess im just going to have to put up with it sadly
shes a mennace she hates kids and strangers too lol