Oh your post made me feel so sad - goodness knows how you must be feeling....
I wonder, do you think it's worth trying him somewhere else that isn't family when you go on vacation?
For instance, if we can't take Harry - I have a
wonderful lady that I leave him with, we take him to her house and he has his own little holiday over there....she took a lot of finding after many interviews. We started off by just leaving him for a couple of hours, and gradually building it up, so that we could
all get used to it....
Or do you know someone who might be able to come and stay at yours? Then the house would be safe, and your Littlie would be in his own environment?
I truly hope he gets back to his normal little self very soon...Sally + Harry
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