Irene~
I understand what you are saying and I think the ability to at least request that a bad post be deleted is to use the red triangle...it is not a guaratee however and still must be appproved and done by a moderator and that takes time sometimes.
I do apologize for asking my question in your thread but I felt it was somewhat related and was simply trying to make it easier on admin by putting both concerns in one place.
I felt it was unfair that Luckierdog never got yo read the negative things that so many posted about her because she was offline. It is almost a legal issue in my mind and she should have a right to see and read what others posted since it was "published" to the outside world and so many did read it.
Again, I apologize and will try harder not to do this again.