I don't force my boys anywhere they seem to not want to go. (except out in the rain to potty!

They hate wet grass!) This poor baby! I agree though, if they don't want to be somewhere or seem nervous or afraid then why force it? I am terrified of heights. I don't have anyone FORCING me to climb into a hot air balloon or on a roller coaster. Its not fair to make a poor dog who can't tell you NO, that they need to just get over their fear.