Patti,
Can't believe you are being treated this way.
I am a medical provider and I am appalled.
Told myself to "be quiet" but then opened a new bottle of wine and said "no way"
Two things:
1. PA's are not independent practitioners like Nurse Practitioners (NP's) are. Therefore, they can only do what the M.D. who employs them allows becuase they are supervised by them. Nurse Practitioners are independent and can write medication and orders when they are needed. This may be one of the reasons you are not getting the communication you need.
2. Call the local American Cancer Society and tell them you need a second oppinion referal and what do they recommend. They know who the local oncologist are and even though they may play it pretty neutral they know who is who. Ask for their help and tell them your frustration and fears.
3. I am going to PM you. I am close to Chicago and my Cali is a Service Dog and goes anywhere I do - let me know and I will be there. I have followed you from the beginning and you need an assertive (hate to say aggressive advocate) on your side.
Prayers and blessing for you and Ken. You two are remarkable!!!!!
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