[carmen in nj]

Not to defend the OP, but i see this happen over and over, why do we have to go so negative in all breeding threads? she asked a very simple question and she should had gotten a simple answer, this is why people go, I thought we are here to enjoy the chat and HELP the humans that ask for help, not to judge their actions, if we help the human in return Hopefuly he dog will get help, we don't encorage anyone to breed, but I see that by the time they get here the deeds or their minds are set, and maybe we can change one persons mind, is not going to happen with negativity, you catch more flys with sugar than vinegar... Am I so wrong? I am starting to feel that all the negative threads hurt this forum more than help it..
just saying...
hugs,