I'm glad we are all on the same page! I set my BF straight this morning and he said he understood, so hopefully he doesn't do it again. He is much to trusting of people and doesn't see all the crazy.
I have left her in the car a couple of times, but I will probably never do that again. The times I have done it were only when I could keep a line of site on the car. So if someone started to go near the car I could run out. (so running in a place to pick up food) But she is soo quite and well behaved I can usually just steak her in. She is more sanitary than a lot of babies....so i don't feel too bad. LOL.
I just have to teach the BF how to behave if he wants to stay "daddy". Or he is just gonna have to be the BF and no longer the daddy.