You are far from crazy hahaha...
you must meet the women in our group. All of them plan over the top party's and it's just so much fun for everyone! It is after all their first and only party you may throw them.
we're having a biker party in may that's super fancy,,, and a beach party in June... And I still haven't figured out if I'm throwing one for Lilo yet in July
XD from all your posts I can already tell your as a crafty as the women I know so I know your party will be great fun!