Given my own traumatic experience during a GE, and seeing others experience "life" during a GE it is hard for me to imagine what could possibly get in the way of fulfilling your obiligations of the GE short of something horrific beyond words. Even still, I try to understand that not everyone is like me and I try to be forgiving.
However in the same breath, I understand how hurt Theresa was/is. I know for a fact she poured her heart and soul into her box. She was asked to be patient in waiting and the hurt builds and turns to anger or what ever. Just as I would try to put myself in Deb's shoes, I also understand Theresa's side of this. No she may not be handling it as I might I don't know that. I can't say I wouldn't be impulsed to lash out too. But I try to understand and the least I can do is be a friend and allow her to vent as she works through it. I think she deserves to vent it out and we be equally understanding. How she does that is not for me to judge. Some of us accept apologies sooner than others and some of us need time to process the whole thing especially if we're the ones with the hurt feelings.
Personally, I think both members are a valued part of YT, and I think if given the opportunity, space, and time they will be able to work this out privately among them, but I don't think that's going to happen with our emotions also involved.
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