[Nancy1999]

I couldn’t watch the whole thing yet, I’m disappointed he chose her, even though I didn’t like him either. This season did seem to be a waste of time, it almost like they throw in the antisocial personality narcissist into to the mix every time. The girls try to warn the Bachelor, but they are perceived as jealous, the more the girls warn, the more he defends, until he sees the show. Most the time, the women are told a man is a jerk, at least they listen, for example with Wes and Blakely, and I don’t recall the women ever choosing the jerk as her mate, (on the show) but two men have done it so far.

One thing that bothers me, about all this is when Ben’s sister and mother decided this women was indeed wonderful just because she acted okay around them. Don’t people realize that this type of person can throw on the charm and knows exactly what to say to win you over? Did they expect her to be some type of monster from the get go? Even Casey Anthony could charm the heck out of people. The bottom line is other people feelings aren’t nearly as important as their own feelings ever, and they think they are indeed better than everyone else, the same rules don’t follow for them, and they actually do dislike most people. Coutney says she gets along with men better, but I think she really doesn't like/respect them either.