I agree, get both and then there's no decision.
However, if that's not possible, BlueBelle is right, the fluffy coat probably does mean a cotton coat and the tangling will be awful. Just ask my Gracie Ruth.
*The girl does have a cute face. + for her
*The boy obviously loves you. + for him
*Belly Bands are a life saver with boys and panties are a pain for girls. + for him - for her
*I have 4, 2 boys & 2 girls and 1 boy & 1 girl are snugglers. The other 2 are lovers, but on their terms. So not sure if you can really say one is better then the other.
But this statement of yours says it all, to me. "She is a little too rambunctious for my daughter who does not like to be bitten"
Go with the boy.
