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Originally Posted by Nancy1999  I have to argue this point, rape is a horrible crime, but try to look at it from the man's perspective, how's he suppose to know that's she's doesn't want it, if she didn't say anything? Seriously, there is so much out their telling men that women want don't like it if he's ask's to kiss her, they want a man who's "in charge." |
This discussion could go on for days... so I will say my peace now and be done with it.
Two of my close friends and my sister were all raped by a so called men who were "in charge".
One, by a so called friend and her fiances best friend.
One, who was only 14 and raped by a neighbor. Who on August 16, 1975 gave birth to a baby boy at the age of 15 yrs old. Later to be found that her rapist was the father.
The other a 50 yrs old church going women by a man very well know in the medical community who she had dated for a short time. This was her first relationship after being divorce for more than ten years. She had every intentions of keeping her purity and remaining celibate.
Three very different circumstances where the man was in charge.... !! None of them reported the crime.
I myself have been in a few situations where the man wanted something form me that I was not willing to give. But it did not stop them from trying to force me. I was one of the lucky ones, I had a little more fight in me than some do. I refuse to give up my "right" my "choice" to say NO.