This was a terrible thing that happened to your friend. This happens more than we know, because most of the girls do not have the courage to come forward and tell what happened to them. You be sure and tell your friend she was NOT to blame for what happened to her. Encourage her to tell her parents or some trusted family member, so they can get her the counseling and emotional help she really must have. There could also be medical issues that she needs to have checked out....sexually transmitted diseases that she could have been exposed to with this encounter, that can cause her major problems if left untreated. She needs to regain the emotional strength, self esteem, and confidence required to be sure she can go forward in her life, stronger, more confident, and not a victim. THIS WAS NOT HER FAULT and she needs the strength and confidence in herself as a young woman, to go forward in her life. |