I agree, your comments are more than welcome. I called and I just asked outright if she has done anything more to find the owner. She says they haven't posted on CL but have called a radio station and had it broadcast. She's called vets and shelters. And put up flyers. They are thinking it was someone passing through. I called my mom to verify this so I know it was actually done and she said the same thing. I told her it was really bothering me and that if she's really trying then I have no problem but that if she was just half trying bc she wants to keep her that it's wrong. She has another yorkie and I said, "how would u feel if Tobi got out and someone just took him?" I'm so so happy it was really that easy and that she is trying. Im glad that I didn't have to be rude in any way and that I didn't have to lose a friend. Although I do not agree with her breeding her. I told her that and asked if she was going to spay her. She said she thinks so. I will keep pushing it. It's not easy for me to call someone and tell them that something they have done has upset me. Thanks to you guys I was able to. I didn't want to wait either. Just wanted to go ahead and get it done so I called. Otherwise I may have takes myself out of it. I feel like all of u helped me find my voice. I'm surprised she has done so much. Happily surprised of course. It's a big relief for me. I dot have to continue thinking she's a terrible person. And I feel a little bad for thinking that anyways. I haven't called her in two weeks or so bc I just didn't want to hear about it and I felt like she was getting mad that I had been bugging her about it for a while. Hopefully some of my initial "bugging" helped to get her to try harder. Proud of her and very proud of the radio broadcast. Still, she should ost on CL. Which I told her. I feel like a million pounds hasten lifted off my shoulders. Thanks again guys. Guess I'll just go ahead and keep going on and on and on about spaying her. And if it irritates her, oh well. I feel good knowing that I wouldn't have just sat back and had fully intended to take it into my own hands. Glad that all out confrontation wasn't necessary. |