With the harness: When you unbuckle the harness and lay it flat you will see a small strap in the middle that connects the two longer straps. You want that small strap to go between her front legs. One long strap will be in front of her legs and one strap will be behind her front legs. Let me know if that doesn't make sense and I will post some pictures of Delilah wearing hers.
She is probably sensing that you are tensing up and that is why she is fighting you. You probably are going into each situation expecting her to fight you. Work with her when you are calm. If she is stressing you out put her in her crate or x-pen and walk away for a few minutes to calm yourself down.
Have you thought about taking her to a puppy class? |