Most days I would jump on the chance to join in.... but oddly enough I must say this week I haven't found a reason to bash the bf (living together for 4 years, might as well be a DH). But I think he just crawled out of the dog house on V-Day, and got extra brownie points.
I'm sorry your DHs are in bad moods... I agree totally with the SRH... I have another term for it, but I'm not sure it it's allowed on here