I agree...the furbabies were there first and have always slept with you so i would not compromise with the boyfriend i would just tell him to get over it...lol
when i first moved in with my hubby he had a pit puppy that was about 6 months old and he slept in the bed sometimes...i had to make him stop bc he stunk and i would get pushed to the very edge and sometimes fall off the bed. I didn't enjoy having to wash the bedding everyday. Im sure you keep your babies smelling good and don't push him off the bed though. He doesn't realize how lucky he is to have the little fur butts in his life. I wish my little boy would sleep with me!!