i am feeling a bit more relaxed now, yes there is a doggy day care near me and it sound amazing they even paint paw pictures haha but its still very expencive like its £10 an hour which i would pay but you can only do certian hours so it makes it expensive! eee lol
bella is my best friend and i want her to be everyones friend, i try to be calm and stuff on walks but it still dosent seem to do anything...im going to try the treats thing next time shes out

thanx again people really appreciate the advice! xx