Both my boys want to cuddle with me all the time. Bogey is on my lap as soon as I sit down. He's my little love bug. Doodlebug likes to be on my lap but it's not a necessity . Right now he's curled up sleeping on my couch. Then there is Pebbles~hardly ever wants to cuddle with me but will want to sit with my husband. They all need to be in the same room with us but Doodlebug will go in my bedroom and burrow under the blankets and sleep all alone. Overall, I think my boys are way more cuddly. Bogey is by far the biggest lovebug of my bunch