I don't know if this will help if it is the ear pressure, but for general anxiety I was recently told by 2 different vets that there is a product called "Composure" chews. It is a natural chill pill, or actually chew. It seems to take affect in about 15 minutes and you can increase the dose safely for special circumstances. Here is a link hope it can help.
Good luck! Composure Soft Chews for dogs and cats - Calming support supplement for small & large dogs, canine
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