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Originally Posted by Smokey2011  I am in no way belittling this woman. I am questioning the prudence and wisdom of some of the "advice" that has been offered in this thread. |
I agree 100%.
We
do not know their situation, any of the persons involved, or the behaviors of said persons.
Just getting the dog and "asking for forgiveness" is not good advice in this situation, imo. Especially if he is abusive in any way (verbally, emotionally, physically, etc).
OP, we have really strayed off from your original question and are questioning your personally life. For that, I apologize if it has caused any negativity towards you. We do not know you and I think it's unfair to you without knowing a full picture, as many of us are guessing at things (which may or may not be correct). I am guilty of this too.
However, I do agree that, based on what you have told us, you should seek some professional help. Even if you or he think there is nothing wrong, you should hear that from someone who would know.
We're just hear to support you.
