I have to say, I'm lukewarm about Ben - his HAIR bugs the heck out of me...I just wish he would trim it and get some sort of style to it. That said, I do think he has a sweetheart of a personality, so I will continue to watch. My DH is always asking "if these girls look like this, WHY do they need a show to find a guy??"
Once we see their personalities and how wacky they are, it explains it all! Very entertaining, non-violent, mindless television...a nice diversion sometimes, to be reminded of just how great my life is!