Thank you all for your stories and your insight. We have some legal complications that need to be worked out over the next few months and then, possibly, we can resume some semblance of order in our own lives while keeping Mom a top priority. Unfortunately, Dad didnt plan for long term care. There will be no inheritance; only the memory of who did right by Mom and who did not, the ramifications of which I leave in the hands of a higher power.
__________________ Smokey's personal assistant,
Jeff |