My mother passed Aug. 29th. I am the only living daughter, I have a younger brother and an older brother. Worthless is all I can say. They couldn't take time to help...they had a life they said. Mom lived with me the last 9.5 months of her life. I wouldn't have had it any other way....I have no regrets. My younger brother visited once a week for 60 minutes and my other brother..about the same. No one took her out for a drive except me, I did all the Dr. appts., stayed with her in the hospital most nights when she was there, stayed a few nights in the nursing home with her too.
Now...they (my brothers) are even worse, just want to know when they are getting their inheritance, which isn't much mind you. She has a home in our hometown and a small one in Florida. Hopefully the estate will be settled soon, and then my family will dissolve. Didn't know they could be such a$$holes. I want them out of my life. I hope you can save your relationship with your siblings, but I'm just too tired to deal with mine anymore. Even if I could deal with them....I'll never be able to trust them ...without trust...there can be no relationship.
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