My mom was my grandfather's primary care giver for 25 years til his passing las year. She has 2 do nothing brothers. My grandfather went to assisted living for the last 2 years because there was no one that would be home all the time. She went through everything you are going through. She is being sued by her 1 brother for bull s**t reasons since his passing. The only help she had from family was me, my brother, and my dad. Her brothers, SILs, and the other 4 grandkids did nothing not even visit him for holidays or call to say "papa how ya doing" or take my grandfather for a few hours to a ball game or the park. They did nothing. By the way he paid for all 6 of his grandiose to go to college even though he did not ever see the other 4. |