[gemy]

Yes, I can relate, with now passed two parents, with Alzheimers, both in secured living arrangements. I was the daughter in town. My three other sisters, truly had no desire or will to try to be there for me on the day to day stuff. It is exhausting to say the least.

I did finally realize, that I was grieving now, for the loss of my parents. Loss due to their ever dimishing mental capacities, their personality changes, et al.

If you need an ear, I am here.