i'm lucky to have pretty decent SILs. There are three brothers and one sister and my SIL that's my dh's sister isn't too bad, the SIL that's married to his older brother is a GEM and we get along perfectly and we vent to each other to keep from going insane with our horrible MIL. i hope my younger BIL marries a girl that me and my married in SIL can mold to our liking
anyways i had a bad day with my inlaws and this time it was the boys. my parents have had it planned since the first of the month to come down (1.5 hours drive) for Christmas eve since dh is off but works on Christmas. so they were coming tomorrow at 10am and HE KNEW THAT. so his dad randomly decides they want to go get something for my MIL for Christmas and leave at 9am tomorrow and not get back til after 11am. Dh asks if this is okay. i put my foot down hard. as sweetly and kindly as i could i called him at work and said that would not be acceptable. his dad had over a month to plan something for MIL for Christmas and that it was not okay of them to ruin our Christmas morning and breakfast and gift opening with my parents to go out last min for presents for her. sorry but i'm not going to accept getting my plans for a month ruined by his dad's whims anymore! i compromise all the time and deal with this crap and i'm DONE dealing. i'm hormonal and having a baby on Wed and i just can't accept their crap anymore. time to be a big girl and stick up for my needs and wants and not let them ride me anymore.
no more Missy nice girl...horns are coming out