I hate to say this and everyone will think i am a bad person but here goes. My life got a lot easier and our marriage became a lot less stressful when my mother in law died.
I married the oldest son and her favorite. She called me a city princess when she first met me and never like me. thought i was a snob. Actually just shy and came from a much different home life.
Her kids catered to her and took her side no matter what. Her oldest Dtr is the same way. She thinks she can get into our business. We live on land that belonged to dh's mom and dad. The front acre was going to be ours when they died. we asked that it be put in our names when we set a trailer on it cause we knew when they died all hell would break loose. Everyone grabbing what they could. Dear sis in law wanted a copy of the deed I pitched a fit. I told dh that no way i did not have copy of her deed.
When we were trying to get our trailer, i asked mom in law to sign a paper stating that the mobile home company could come on the land and repossess the home if we defaulted on loan. She sd no, dh had to talk her into it. It was a matter if that she did not sign, we would not have a home.
sorry, she was and is still a sore spot with me even though dh and i have been married 29 years. I tell him at least he has better in laws than i have.
