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Originally Posted by Nancy1999

For the most part, I really try to write hoping I can educate in some way, not just vent at the OP, although, I do that sometimes too. There are people here, who set such a wonderful example of how to educate; they have really inspired me to do better. However, even when I’ve done my very best, it still ticks some people off, so all I can do is my best, but, I’m seriously trying. I feel for those who answer medical and breeding questions, these threads are very emotional, and it’s easy to get involved in the outcome. I know sometimes I feel like if I could only convince the person to see a vet, a dog’s life could be saved. I think people learn more by example than they do be nagged and criticized. I guess what bothers me the most is when I try to do a good job and be careful; I get criticized for being “pretending to be kind.” The bottom line is we have a very diversified group, and you will get a lot of different styles of replies, but some of the best medicine tastes awful.

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I’m really sorry if I said something that made you feel bad. I thought your explanation in post 61 and 67 were good ones and I thought the thread had turned into a positive learning experience with people understanding a little better what each side felt. I don't understand why so many people then said "I'm through with this". Obviously, not everyone saw it the way I did, I do feel at times things get too rough here, and I guess it makes me want to stay away. I understand it when the life of an animal is in jeopardy, but that isn’t always the case. We all have different sensitivities and I know many feel we should just ignore the responses that upset us, but that’s easier said than done. Again, I’m sorry if I’ve made you feel bad, it hurts me that you are upset.

Not sure you want want my thumbs up , but too bad, you've earned it. Very wise and well put.