I love this quote:
"You must be the change you want to see in the world."
Mahatma Gandhi
Indian political and spiritual leader (1869 - 1948)
You may not like the way everyone posts...I'm sure
no one here likes what everyone posts!

The only one any of us has any control over is ourselves. When I see something I don't think is being handled well, I can either ignore it or post what I think it the right thing.
I also try to go to the sick and injured forum to help offer prayers or support. Spending time there helps put things in perspective. Anyone can have a very positive impact on this forum by going there.