We're thinking about you, and sending wishes for healing and health. I swear by guided meditations for healing (not the new agey kind, just the focus on your body and relaxing kind
). They helped me prepare for, handle and recover from 5 surgeries last year. Mentally trying to get to a place where you just accept your current state, try to learn all you can from it, and be at peace with it, all helped me a ton, too. I'm so sorry he (and you) has to go through this. (If you want meditations you can download on iTunes, just let me know
)