This is the best website I have found
http://www.dogfriendly.com/
another one is
http://www.petswelcome.com/milkbone/framelist.html
Some of the Hiltons are Pet friendly, that is the nicest place I have stayed so far.
resorts
http://www.dogfriendly.com/server/ne...tenr2005.shtml
good luck and let us know how your vacation goes.