Yikes! I hope your DH doesn't have a YT account.
In all seriousness...one of the BEST gifts you can give your children is loving their father and providing them with a mom and dad who get along well.
One of my favorite self help books is "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. It is a really good book. Most husbands (unless they really are jerks) are very easy to love and get along with. They just want good food, good lovin', and respect.
From what I've read from your posts...you have a good husband. He was cleaning the fans, right!
Just wanted to nose in your business with my two cents worth.
. Good luck to you both!