Well one thing helped ease the stress a little its a small thing so don't laugh, I am trying to be positive. Her water bottle with stand came in today and I washed it and put fresh water in it and set it on the floor to see if she would use it and right away she used it and went back to it a few minutes later. That helps a little because now I know she will be able to have access to water with out spilling it all over the play pen. One small victory
