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Originally Posted by gemy  It is part of the stages of grief. Valid and necessary stages. You will need to go through all those steps of grief. And everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time. We learn the lessons we need to through loss; but every loss, I believe creates a larger, wiser, more compassionate heart.
Yes perhaps right now your are not ready for another dog; and that is probably as it needs to be.
Sometimes activity is good for the heart and soul. There will be a turning point, when you need to look out, need to experience the life of the world around you.
Try not to be so hard on yourself, we all make mistakes, it is what makes us so very human. One day you will go past your self blame, learn the lessons life has offered you.
So right now just heal. There is a world of time for you and your fiance, a world of Yorkie love for you again when the time is right.
Hugs to you |
Oh I so agree with you.....she will go thru so many stages of grief...anger being one...I am still very angry...not at anyone in particular but angry because we could not save Isabella....I made a promise to her the day we got her I would never let anything happen to her....I have felt so much anger over failing her....I know now its ok to smile and even laugh..there are good days and some really terrible days.....but I know Isabella is in my heart and the hearts of so many who knew her. I also know now the reason Isabella was Meant to Be with me.....it still hurts but she will live on forever thru research...we will find why GME/NLE is killing our breed and hopefully one day stop it. And I know too that when the time is right Isabella will send me another baby to love.