it can be upsetting I know how you feel. I have one yorkie Olly that looks like a typical yorkie and my other baby Tia which is a 5lb smaller version and when we were out walking in Southsea( don't know if you know it) but someone walked past me and said the one in the pink is a Jack Russel to his little girl! She is the one that gets the 'rat lable'. I love both my babies so they can go stuff themselves lol