[KazzyK810]

Not talking until 24 hours after the game is pretty much standard practice in high school & travel sports here. It allows time for tempers to cool.

Unless the coach's conduct CLEARLY crosses the line...such as throwing a ball at a kid's head in anger, etc., I would not recommend contacting the Athletic Director if you have not yet spoken with the coach. That is breaking the chain of command, would be guaranteed to ruffle the coach's feathers and make things alot harder on your daughter if she stays with the team. I would make contact with the coach first if you feel you have serious concerns.

The type of behaviour you describe by the coach is pretty much standard fare in high school sports. My son played varsity ice hockey & lacrosse all four years of high school. My daughter played varsity soccer all four years and boys varsity lacrosse her junior & senior year (as they didn't have a girls team at that time).