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Originally Posted by celstu1  GIRL!!!  Hey!!!! Are you back? I miss your awesome words of wisdom! You know what is the worst part of this? No one is financially helping and Im trying to cut corners and put on a show for family and friends and pay for the whole thing by ourselves. I am doing all the work and paying for it for everyone else's benefit (how it feels right now)! Not that I want or need someone to pay for it, but seriously everyone wanted a big wedding but no one thinks of the cost and stress it puts on a couple to do that! Sal is concerned I'll regret not doing a wedding but I don't think I will. I think it might be a bit late to cancel now though! We already put the deposit on the hall & photographer down.
I know I'll be thrilled the day of... I can't wait for that day to get here!!! lol  |
I'm starting to believe this is the norm. In Aug, a fam friend got married. Her ideal wedding was: go on her lunch break, get married, have lunch with her new husband, go back to work. It would have worked too since she works at a courthouse. When her boss found out, she flipped. 3 weeks before the wedding, we went dress shopping, shoe shopping, I Had 3 weeks to learn how to do her hair (and she's super picky), jewelry shopping, wedding cake...... I guess you get the idea. We did it all for someone else. Granted, it's not the same scale as your wedding, my friend was stressed most of the time those 3 weeks.
Remember to just take a moment out of each day to sit back and think, "soon I'll be his wife, and he'll be my husband." I bet just the thought will get you all giddy and excited. It's what really matters right?