best method is the KISS method Keep It Simple Stupid. Not calling you stupid at all, just keep it simple it's the best way. If it's annoying you to do all this hire a wedding planner/coordinator to do the footwork for you. Saves you time and energy of all these meetings and things. he/she will keep you in budget and save you the time of all the meetings. also don't try to do it all at once. i'm not sure your timeline, but i had a year to plan and was taking 18 credit hours of college and working three jobs and managed to do a little here and there and get it all done easily. you just have to prioritize, take your time, and don't overwhelm yourself into hating this. it's a fun and beautiful time. you get to CHOOSE everything yourself and it's the only time i remember being in total control. i loved it but i have a degree in recreation management so it's my thing. if you need advice or help just holler okay. take a deep breath and take it slower and don't try to do it all at once. |